BLS metro-level wage data places Waiters and Waitresses pay in Rochester, NY at a median of $45,310 per year ($21.78/hr/hour), drawn from the OEWS May 2025 release for this Metropolitan Statistical Area. Compared to the national median of $35,230, Rochester pays +29% above, signaling either concentrated employer demand, a cost-of-living premium, or both. Approximately 6,070 waiters and waitressess are employed across the Rochester MSA in SOC 35-3031.

The Rochester pay distribution spans from $32,240 at the 10th percentile to $80,400 at the 90th — a 2.5× spread that reflects experience tenure, specialization, employer size, and the difference between public-sector, nonprofit, and private-sector compensation inside the metro. The 25th percentile sits at $33,470 and the 75th at $61,150, so half of Rochester-based waiters and waitressess earn within that middle band.

Metro figures capture where you actually work, not just where you live — which matters for commuters. BLS draws metro boundaries from the OMB MSA definitions, so Rochester, NY covers the central city plus outlying counties tied to the metro economically. Remember that OEWS wages reflect base pay only: employer-provided health insurance, retirement matches, stock options, signing bonuses, overtime, and tips are excluded and can add 20-40% to real total compensation. Before using this metro median as a negotiation anchor, triangulate against the same occupation's national profile (linked below), its state-wide NY data, and peer-metro comparisons — a median is a starting point, not a ceiling.